Can a guy tell if a girl is a closet freak? Is it a bad thing?

I agree that tell all games are juvenile and that your lover should be comfortable to discuss anything with you. Everyone's drive is different, you may need more than average and may have a difficult time finding someone compatible. Also guys just don't talk about anything as much as girls do. If it was me, and I turned you down for , you should tie me up and whip me until I comply.